How an Intuitive can help you

I wanted to write about what an Intuitive can help you with. This is something I'm asked a lot, and I feel like it's something that is many times misunderstood. Keep in mind that these are just my thoughts on the subject, and it's is not my intention to be judging intuitives or others who works in a different way, or in other ways do not agree with me. I will first write about what I believe Intuitives like myself can help you with, and then I want to address some misunderstandings and in the end I will write about how to word your questions to get the most out of your session.

As an intuitive it is my job to look at the larger strings of life. I see energy and I communicate with spirits, guides and other helpers you have around you. I believe it is very powerful when we are in a position where we figure out that you are in charge, and that you can change your life to whatever you want it to. It's all a matter of consciousness and which tools to use. We all have blind spots, even the most intuitive human do. For whatever reason these blind spots can block us and make us feel trapped or stuck in an unwanted situation. For example; maybe there was a situation in your childhood that you have repressed or you may have doubted its importance. When this part of you and your story is drawn to your consciousness you can begin to heal this aspect of you. We can't heal what we don't know, or don't want to know of.

We all have two points of perspectives: our own as a physical being, and one as our soul or higher self. This means that we all have the opportunity to connect with our higher self, but in some situations we seem to forget this and block this part of us. A typical situation for this is when we suffer from depression, anxiety or mental or physical trauma. In this situation an intuitive can be of help to you to look behind the veil and tell you what you have forgotten. The most important thing, in my opinion is, is to strengthen your belief in yourself and in that you have the steering wheel in your life.

This takes me to the next part that I wanted to address. The reason why I personally don't believe in only doing predictions is for this very reason. It is important for me to help you to your own truth and help you find your power. I believe that a session that is based on a series of predictions alone will strip you of your power, and make you believe that you need me as a middleman, or woman, to fix your life. Which is the opposite of what I believe and know.

So, how should one word a question to get the most out of an intuitive session? The most important thing, no matter the topic, is to come to the session with a feeling of self power. That being said, the very reason why you seek an intuitives point of view may be because you can't find your power, and that's ok! It's all about the inner knowing that I can't fix you, you have to take the information you receive and do the work yourself. Let me give you two examples of questions I get all the time, and feel into the difference of energy of them.

1. How can I step more into my power, and what is this block I seem to hit everytime I try to work on myself?
2. Is my husband cheating on me? Does he really love me?

The first one suggest the willingness and understanding that you have the power, and this will make it so the intuitive information will be more specific and you will feel that you will recieve more constructive information out of your session. The second one is more restrictive, and it depends on many variables, and I believe that it is in most cases not one of your core issues. It's only a layer, and a yes/no - answer will not help you to where you want to be/ be who you want to be.

Distant healing

I wanted to write about what I think is important that you know about distant healing, and what you can do to make most of the distant healing session.

What is healing?

Healing is a natural process. The way I look at healing is that the energy helps your body to function at its best potential. Sometimes it will take away pain, and other times it will deal with the cause of the pain. The latter is my goal. You can look at your issue, whatever it may be, like a tree. If you only deal with the branches and not the roots, you will not get better in the long run. Generally speaking, the healing will work on the cause of your problem rather than the symptoms alone.

How does a distant healing session work?

Before we start it is beneficial that you make yourself comfortable, sit or lie down, it does not matter in which way, all that matter is that you are able to relax as much as possible, with as few distractions as possible. Some people find that relaxing music is helpful. While you relax I will work with your energy in the parameters of the intention that has been set. In a one to one healing session I will either call you back or meet you back on Facebook. It depends on which contact method you chose. We will then have a quick talk about whatever got brought to my attention during the session. If you wanted the 30 minute healing we will stop here. If you booked 60 minutes, the approximately first 30 minutes will contain healing, and the last 30 will be more in the line of an intuitive consultation.

Special information about distant group healing sessions:

In a distant group healing situation we will not set an intention as a group, but I will connect to the collective consciousness of the particular group, and work on the issue or situation that the group represents. Because of the law of attraction, everyone in the group who participates at the event at hand will have a common issue or will deal with common factors in their life. This is because we have to be a match on some level to interact with each others energy.

How I crawled out of my black hole

I wanted to write about how I crawled out of the deep, black hole I felt I was in for a long time, because this is something that effect many of us. Many of my clients have this particular problem, and believe me, I have been there. You feel stuck, tired, afraid, and like there is nothing you can do to get to a better place in your life. It is the closest we can get to hell, being in a bad situations with no possibility to escape. 

I have been there many times, it comes and goes in shorter and longer periods. Sometimes darker than others. My absolute worst experience with this was in 2007. I lived in a small apartment alone, and for the first time the walls really came crushing down. At this time I don't think I really knew what was going on. I was depressed and so anxious all the time. Most of the time I was in my tiny apartment alone, in my bed or on my couch. I always had the curtains closed because I was so afraid that anyone would see me. If I had to go out for some reason, I ran to my car and I did everything as fast as I could, and than I ran back inside and made sure to really shut the door behind me. I don't even know what I was so afraid of. I had no energy to do anything, no dishes and not cleaning, nothing. I generally felt like a fat, ugly loser with no chance in succeeding in anything in life, apart from being right there under my blanket. I used to force myself to go to sleep early so that the night wouldn't be that long. It was a living hell.

This cycle went on for many years. In periods I was ok, and in others I was really not ok. And like many of us, I didn't tell a single soul how I really felt like. As I have written in another blog, the last time this happened was january 2015, and it hit me like a brickwall.

The breakthrough though, was that I suddenly saw all my problem differently, I started developing my intuition after going to a healer, and I started to view myself, my issues and the world in a completely different way. I started to see that many of my problems was because of my sensitivity, most of my “stuff” wasn't even mine! I startet to treat my feelings and thoughts with unconditional love. And of course this is  an ongoing process that in no way happens over night. I started to really see that I was the one in charge of my life! I have to come to myself with care and love, and not by being hateful and harsh like I always have been. I have to take care of myself as a highly sensitive person and an empath. I also find that it really helps to be open and authentic about my problems.

I know you might not believe me, and I know you might think that I was in a different experience than you, and that what you struggle with is something no one can come out of. I lovingly and respectfully disagree! YOU are the architect of your life experience. You just have to find the right tools that suites you. There is no mystery or “bad luck” to your situation. There is one or many reasons to why you today feel the way you do, it's just a matter of pinpointing it and healing your wounds. I will not lie, it will be the hardest thing you ever have to do, but in the end I promise you, you will never look back once your eyes are open!

7 tips to develop your intuition

1. Meditate. For me, meditation is important because it's about stopping thought and finding your own energy. When you know how your energy feels like, it is easier to recognize and interpret others.

2. Emotions. In my opinion you can't connect with your intuition without developing your connection to your emotions. The reason for this is that most of the communication and reading of energy is interpreted through your emotions.

3. Practice your focus. There are many ways to do this. One way is to see a picture or a person in your mind's eye, it could also be a color or shape, like a red dot. As often as you can, try to hold your attention on the red dot without any interference. This is much harder than it sounds!

4. Drink water. It is important to keep the channel, which is you, clear. Water helps to clean out your body, amongst many other things.

5. Play! You have to have a sense of play, too much pressure and seriousness will block your flow!

6. Find your heart! It is important to connect with your heart. Many of us will have problems with this, so techniques for finding, and living from your heart is important.

7. Practice! It's important to practice your ability and interpret what made you correct, and what made it so you interpret it wrong. You have to develop and learn your own “language”. Some ways to practice is to try to predict the weeks news or weather, try finding something that is  hidden or lost and practice reading people. Most importantly, have fun with it!

Emotional neglect.

In my experience and opinion emotional neglect is a big undermentioned problem in our society. Emotional neglect is often subtle in nature, which makes it so the recipient almost doesn't think that it is as harmful as it really is, and maybe don't even notice it. It could be the times you felt not seen or when your emotions wasn't mirrored, heard or you did not feel important to you parents or others around you. Emotional pain leaves no scars. Your teachers can't see your bruises and figure it out. That being said, as a special educator I know there are many ways to observe a child and see signs of emotional neglect, but in my experience, this is sadly not as high up in the teacher's agenda as it should be! And another important issue is that if you don't recognize that the way someone is treating you is wrong, how can you ask for help?

What makes emotional neglect so hard to heal is that we talk about the things that never

happened to you! When we talk about physical neglect we often think about a parent hitting their child, or even sexual abuse. witch I in no shape or form is taking lightly or is saying isn't bad! The fact is thou, by enduring emotional neglect you may not even know that it happened to you and there is no hard evidence, because your parents may have been so nice! They may have given you everything you needed and wanted, and you think of them as really good parents. Later on in life you maybe struggle with anxiety or depression, but you feel like there is no reason why, or no reason good enough for you to struggle like you do! You had this perfect childhood and you feel like you have no reason to feel upset or anxious, maybe you're just ungrateful and a bad person?

My point is not that your parents was evil or had bad intentions that you never knew about, but that your parents also had parents that didn't care for their emotions, and their parents before them. Your parents may have meant well when they yelled at you for being angrily or when you told them that your didn't like something. But what it really did was do so you question yourself and your emotions, and when your emotions gets you into trouble, you shut them down to survive in your environment. It's a perfect strategy, at least for a very short while until we shut down and suddenly can't function and can't trust yourself anymore. It is so much easier to heal problems you know about or have evidence of, and most of the time emotional neglect don't fall into that category.

Let's take one example. Let's say you hated school and asked not to go one day, maybe someone was mean to you or something made you feel not safe, and your parents said “we have to do things we don't like to do”, so you went anyway. And you wonder why you today is in a shitty situation and you can't do anything because you have to “hold on”? Or your parents told you to stop crying and being upset one or many times because you had, in their opinion, nothing to cry about. In fact, they may even say that you destroyed the day for them with your attitude.Thay shamed you for feeling that way. And now as an adult you can't seem to figure out what's your purpose in life is . Witch in my opinion is not weird at all, because what you really learned from them, is that your emotions are wrong, and you shouldn't be feeling that way. How can you know if any emotion you have is correct? So you suck it up and continue living the life that makes you go down a spiral of anxiety and self-destructive

If this is you, you have to look in the seem of your childhood on the things that never happened, but should have happened. You should have had parents who mirrored and validated your emotions, and saw you for being you and not an extension of himself. When you didn't want to go to school they should have asked you way and let you know that they understood how you felt and in that way you could figure out something together. Every time something made you upset, angry or happy they should be there validating you, and make you feel safe in your emotions. It is perfectly normal to feel like you do if this was your childhood!

Highly sensitive and introvert

Extroverted and introverted personality are two characteristics that were first described by psychiatrist Carl Jung (1875-1961). He describes introverted as persons who have a rich inner world with a great need for alone time. Extrovert on the other side usually gets their energy from the outer world, they are social and have often problems with being alone. Jung points out in his theory that none of us are either one or the other, but that we all find ourselves somewhere between the two extremes. Personally I am highly sensitive and  introvert, so today I thought I would focus on that end of the scale.

When I think of my childhood, and especially regarding school, I wonder why no one ever asked me how I was doing. And it amazes me how fast I got the tag shy and virtually placed at the back of the class. And I know this is a huge problem for many people. I felt rarely or never seen for who I was, nor did someone ever help me to strengthen my good qualities. Instead it was constantly a huge focus on that I had to change and become more like the extroverts in the class. I felt like my whole identity was “shy”. And I felt that this was more a limitation than a mere characterization. Think of all the hours of teacher/parent conferences they could have saved themselves, for yes, I know I'm quiet.

In my personal experience is that it is an extrovert privilege in the society at large, but that being said, of course it is positive and negative things on both sides. My overall experience with school and work, is that it is in many ways a lot of prejudice against introverted, and it is common that we in school and job situation get tags like lazy, evasive or little engaged. Which in many cases could not have been more wrong. One of many examples of this is a teacher I had in high school that consistently approached me with questions about the subject when he thought I was evasive and didn't pay attention, because I seldom or never raised my hand and I avoided eye contact. Although I almost always replied correct but he never stopped Attacking me in class, it felt like I never could prove myself in his eyes.

When you are like me, highly sensitive and a sponge for the environment, it hurts every time you hear "you have to be more verbally active." It is more than once I have experienced to get lower marks than those around me with this as reason. Why? Now as an adult I have no problem seeing what a daunting and challenging situation school is for children and adolescents. The performance situation  are difficult for most people. So how can it be that no one gave any expression of this at the time?

I met a former teacher a while after I walked out of secondary school, she told me that she remembered me because they had worked so hard to "lift me up", as she said. And to me that is  extremely weird, because I can't say I've ever felt that kind of support from them. And having said that, why did she think that I needed to be lifted up anyway, lifted up from what?

Today I know about all the wonderful characteristics one has as a highly sensitivit person, and that is perhaps also why I can't understand that society at large doesn't seem to see it the same way. My biggest wish is that all this fantastic children and adults, many of whom I`ve worked with, see their own uniqueness and gets help with growing their own abilities.

9 things I wish I learned in school

1. Everybody experience tough times for shorter or longer periods during their lives. International studies shows that 30-50% of the adult population will have a mental illness during their lifetime (Kessler, 2005a, Mykletun, 2009). Research also shows that about every third person has had a panic attack during the last year. Worldwide! That's 1.3 billion people have had a single panic attack in the past twelve months. Where you live, every third neighbor had a panic attack. And this is only people with registered mental disorders, it is then not difficult to imagine that people with "lighter" mental challenges are a significantly larger part of everyone's everyday life.

2. Your difficult experiences may be your biggest strengths! Whether it's trauma, anxiety or other difficult situations. This knowledge and experience makes it so that you have an expert perspective on specific areas which can be of great importance for your own journey as well for others you share your perspective with.

3. Being weird is a good thing!! It's a positive thing that you see the world differently than many around you. Nourish it!

4. You are absolutely fine just as you are! I believe this far deeper than a conventional cliché like "it's what's inside that counts." You came into the world to be unique and special, and so you are!

5. Stop spiritual bypassing. By this I mean using expressions like "being positive" to justify why you have to stay in a negative situation. We must stop pretending that we are all delightful and grateful all the time. YES it is of course a part of spiritual development, but all in it's time. Phrases like "I do what I can to stay positive" is often just a pretext to avoid having to go into the darkest and most difficult places in you.

6. You don't have to “be strong” and endure the situation you're in. This is related to the point above. To always “be strong” is nothing but self-destructive. You are here to do what you want to do, To persevere in a job or situation because you think it is right thing to do will only wear you out and make you sick!

7. People who make you feel like nothing is not worth your time! Make a point of prioritizing people and things that make you feel good!

8. You can make a difference, no matter in what field or area you feel drawn to. You are the expert on your own life, and your perspective will be valuable for many people!

9. Learn how to trust yourself! Even the most experienced intuitive will never know better what is best for you than you do yourself! For many, this is perhaps the most difficult task they will ever do. How do I know the difference between what I really want and what I think I want? Learn the language of your own heart!

9 tips for tough times

For many years I have dealt with anxiety, so I know how difficult and hard it is! In my darkest times I felt like I didn't recognize myself anymore ,I was scared all the time and at my worst I had panic attacks around the clock. I felt like a faceless nobody, and I felt like there was nothing for me in this life. So please believe me when I say, I see your pain! It's important for me state that using this tips didn`t make me feel accomplished and blissed the next morning, it is a long process.The good news however is that when you're not feeling good, small steps goes a long way to start feeling better! I believe these tips will be useful to you when you're not at a dark place as well, as I still use them regularly! So here we go, 9 tips to find yourself when you're feeling lost :

1. Talk to someone! Please don't think that you have to be alone in what you're going through. It could be a professional, a friend or others you trust!  

2. Have patience with yourself! I know it's hard, and I know that it seems life is not going fast enough. But I promise you, finding some patience and gentleness with yourself will speed up the process!

3. Turn your mind inwards! We live in a time where there often is all about mind-energy. We have to exide, master and show the world on Facebook how happy we are. Start playing with mindfulness, yoga and/or meditation. Note that everything is not for everyone, so find your way to YOUR heart. When I started out with meditation I couldn't close my eyes because I felt out of control and dizzy, which led me to feel panic. If you for some reason feel like something is stopping you from this, think about life hack number 2, patience! To begin with I listened to guided meditations on Youtube with my eyes open, and slowly but surely I got there!

4. Put yourself first, always! You can't take care of everyone around you if you are not well! Put the oxygen mask on yourself before helping others, you can't help anyone if you're the first to go!

5.  Do your shadow work and inner child work! If this is new to you, it's all about finding the root cause to your problems and blocks. Let the healing begin!

6, Do what feels good. Even if you're in a place where all you see is darkness, try to find out what things you can do to feel relief in your day. What can you do in the next 5 minutes to feel relief? Maybe taking a hot shower, a cup of tea or coffee or going outside to breath?

7. Allow yourself to feel safe and comforted! Do you feel like all you can accomplish today is to hide under the covers? You are totally allowed to do so! It does not matter if your dishes are colliding with the roof!  

8. Ignore ignorant comments! Many people don't understand your situation because they are blessed and never have been where you are! How many haven't heard that you`re lazy, faking or similar statements. It does not matter, because you and I knows that it's not the case!

9. Take your emotions seriously! What you feel is never wrong, It's not possible to be dramatic, over-sensitive, excessive or over-anything. The emotions that comes forward in the moment does so because you have good reasons for it, and it can never be exaggerated or wrong in any way!

Use the tips that resonates with you and leave the rest :)

Shift in human consciousness

Timelines are speeding up. Chances are that you since approximately 2012 have been experiencing symptoms of this. Maybe you have been feeling that your life felt apart or that something shifted in your life that caused everything to change. This is the case for many of us. Many people, me included, felt like the floor gave in under us. By this I don't mean that you suddenly woke up one morning and realised that you are a divine being and felt pure bliss, more in the way that many changes happened in a relative short amount of time that left you feeling lost, stranded and even stuck.  It is time to give attention to our hearts. And I know that for many people this sounds like a clichè from a Hollywood movie, but it really is true!

The good thing about the time speeding up is that if you have the desire to heal your heart and mind, this is the time for you! It also makes it so there are incredible how fast you can change your life, more so than ever. I have in many occasions seen how fast people turn their life around in a relative short amount of time. The bad part is, if anything ever can be either good or bad, is that it's harder to live a disconnected life than before. This is the reason why many of us find ourselves in a place where it feels like everything is getting striped from our lifes. In many ways it may feel like the universe is making it so that your only choice is to wake up, by pushing you into a corner! That being said, I can feel that many will read this and feel that the universe is cruel or that the universe is punishing you, but I promise you, that is very far from the case!

I will be the first to say that at times it's very painful when you feel that you are stuck and that healing is impossible from where you stand,  but I also know that it's never impossible! An important spiritual life-hack that I learned along my journey and really feel is true, is that you don't have to learn how to be happy, because that is your natural state. For me this is very important, because for me this means that you don't have to struggle to be happy and positive, the real healing begins when you start to go inward and be the unconditional parent for yourself that you never had!  You need to learn to come back to yourself with love. This is a topic of it's own which I will get more into in another post at a later time.

You have to learn to believe that you are the divine being that you truly are!  

Healthy boundaries

I have always had problems setting boundaries for myself. Which is something most of us struggle with, in my experience, one way or another. I am a highly sensitive person and I have never really had a sense of boundary between my energy and others. Like I was just an extended part of everybody else. I think many people struggle with this, and maybe HSP's (Highly sensitive persons) in particular. So how does one start to sort out where you start and where you finish?

Boundaries in my opinion does not only mean what you allow other people to do towards you. It is just as important to know what you like and what you don't like. What is my likes and dislikes down to the smallest detail, I like this flavour instead of that flavour. I have always had problems with saying, no I would rather have this one, or no I would rather go there. I believe that the journey towards finding yourself really comes down to this issue. What do I like and what do I dislike. For example I like to hike alone. So, I don't like company while hiking.

Specially I think it's important for HSP`s to know because we have a gift of being overly concerned with other people's reaction to us, and we easily observe small details in others reactions that makes the smallest reaction very apparent to us. But that being said, I think this is something everybody struggles with to some extend.

So what can you do today to start this journey? I think the most important thing is to take baby steps and to have patience for yourself. If you have lived your whole life with little or no boundaries, it will take time to get there, and that's ok! Maybe the first step is to ask yourself, do I like tea or coffee the most. If you don't like tea, don't drink tea!  At first you don't have to tell anyone if that's too hard right now, all in it's time. The most important thing is to honor your energy and respect your own decisions! Start small and build your way up when you feel comfortable doing so.

My turning point

In January 2015 I had a big turning point. 1,5 year prior to this I had finished my Bachelor`s degree in Special education, and I quickly got a good job in this field. Sadly though, it only lasted for 6 months because of cutbacks in the company. After being almost 1 year unemployed, I got an internship at a school as a special educator. I really thought that this was my dream job, but this quickly turned.

Only one week in I started to feel very anxious while at work,even though everyone I worked with was wonderful. I started taking breaks alone on the toilet just to get some time alone to breath. Every day on the way to and from work I cried because I felt so overpowered, tired and afraid, and I didn't understand why. After only 2 weeks I had to pull back from the internship, and I went to the doctor to get a sick leave.

The 6 months was tough, I was extremely fatigued, dizzy and worst of all had general anxiety and panic attacks every day.  I was afraid of being alone and everything I did gave me all the anxiety symptoms you can think of.

So here I was, afraid of even going to the bathroom by myself. But one day for some reason I do not understand I went to the website of a healer I had heard about, and even weirder, I ordered a session with him. In all my anxiety it suddenly felt so logical and safe to go there even though a trip to the mailbox was a challenge for me at that point. I went and it was really great, and for the first time in 6 months I felt a sense of calmness. In the car on my way home I remember I could feel my thigh muscles relaxing, and it was like I sat ON the seat and not above it like before.

The next week I started at a Reiki healing course with the healer I mentioned above. It was amazing because I have always been a sensitive and spiritual person, but I think I have always repressed it and not owed it in a way. It felt like I at once remembered everything I didn't know I knew, if that makes sense. I started feeling other people's physical and psychological pain and knowing things there is no way I could had known.

I really think that I could no longer continue with doing what I thought I was supposed to do. I was supposed to get a good education, then a good job and in the end a well paid job. Everything I thought I knew had to get stripped of me to finally start to see who I truly am.

At the same time I feel that it is important of me to point out that everything didn't get perfect as by magic. I still struggle with anxiety and I'm still on my way to recovery, and that is something I want to be honest about because I think it is really important to throw away our masks and talk about our struggles.

Emotional safety

Research has shown that about one of every third person have had a panic attack the last year in the whole world. That means that 1,3 billion people have had one single panic attack in the last twelve months. This means that issues connected to mental health is way more common than most people think. Though unsafety is not the problem for all of those people, but for many of us it all comes down to the felling of not feeling safe, in this blog post I will concentrate on emotional safety.

Many of us grow up in an environment where it is not safe to show emotion, it could be sadness, happiness or any other emotion. When we are children, we have to fit in, its life or death for us. How many of us havent heard our parents say " go to your room" just because you got angry or sad and your parents couldn`t, or wouldn't , deal with you. As long as you show these emotions, you cant be a part of us. The unfortunate result is that you repress these feelings. The problem is however, that these feelings never goes away.

When my anxiety was at its worst, I felt like I never got any peace, every second of every day felt unsafe. For some reason I started watching a video on youtube where a woman talked about how to create the feeling of safety where there currently is none. She talked about how you get stuck in this downward spiral of negative thoughts, and the importance of creating a feeling of relief. One method for creating this feeling of safety was to create a safety list. The reason of this being that when the wave of uncertainty and this feeling of being unsafe arises, all logic of this is gone with the wind, so by having this pre-made list you can turn to it and always find something that usually gives you the feeling of some kind of relief or safety in the situation your in.

The start of my list looked like this:
- Hiding under my blanket in the sofa.
- Taking a hot shower.
- Listen to music.
- Hold a shopping cart while shopping.
- Carrying my mobile and car keys in my hand while walking outside or shopping.

For me this was a revolutionary though. I can create my own safety where there before was none.

Before I thought about this like a weakness, but I suddenly understood that it is OK to create the feeling of safety for yourself! It is OK to hold your shopping cart tight while shopping if that does the necessary errands achievable. As long as you are conscious of why you do it.

For me this small shift in behaviour and consciousness has helped me to the place in the process where I am now, where I no longer have to have my car keys or shopping cart available to feel safe while shopping, at least most of the time.

Perspectives

The reality as I see it is connected by different perspectives. Every single individual that live, or have lived, have each their own unique perspective. Though it is true that from a higher perspective we are all one, I want to focus on perspectives from the view of the physical reality we live in.

Topics like religion and politics are hard to talk about. It`s like you can`t form a single opinion without being bombarded from the opponent about what they mean and what an idiot you are for saying otherwise. We are more concerned with being right than to be happy. But what if there is no right or wrong?

So what is a perspective? In my understanding, a perspective is the way you see the world. Everything you ever learned, seen and heard plays in on how you perceive the world around you. It is like we all is equipped with our virtual reality glasses where the reality is shown through a filter that is created of your experience.  If you were raised in a christian environment, your perspective will be different than if you're raised in an atheistic environment. Even within the different communities each person's perspective will differ. And isn't that amazing?

Without being any sort of expert on the area, I would posit that many wars are fought on this ground. How do I get the opponent to mean what I mean, in other words, how can I force you to see the world through my perspective. Why is this so important for some? Why can't we learn from each other instead? Maybe there is something from my perspective that resonate with yours and could enrich your life, and vice versa. And also, how can a perspective be wrong when it's just a direct result of everything you ever learned ? Isn't that just experience, which in most cases is something we highly appreciate?

Everything I'm writing here for instance is from my perspective, maybe is there nothing here that resonate with you, and that's OK!